Is it so unusual for people who are selling their houses to actually be living in them? To actually request a heads up before someone comes to see the house, particularly if it’s a weekend or an evening? I mean, we make plans, too. We eat meals, we shower – we’d like to be sure that we and the house are ready. I imagine most people selling a house are in the same boat. But every agent who calls to set up a showing seems surprised and put out that we live there. We ask for a window of time when they expect to show up so we can make sure we’ll be there or that the house is ready. We have NEVER said no – we’ve always managed to accommodate them. And then they so rarely actually show up during that window. TWICE an agent has called to say they’re running late and/or not coming, and we think they’re angels for doing that. That’s how low the bar is right now.
Yesterday, an agent called to set up a showing between 11 and noon this morning (Saturday). No problem. We were ready at 11. It’s 12:30 now. Around 12:15, I called her to see if 1) they’re still coming, and 2) if she could give us an idea when that might be. I’m always super nice about that call – I get that they’re looking at a lot of houses and a schedule is hard to keep to. So they’re still coming, and she thinks it’ll be near 1. We’ll see. A courteous person would have noticed the time (maybe around 11:45), realized they weren’t going to make the window, and called us first to let us know and see if we could wait or arrange another time. OF COURSE, we’re going to be accommodating – we want to sell our house. Just, you know, CALL us to let us know you’ll be late.
I know not all real estate agents are pushy and rude and inconsiderate (they just can’t ALL be like that), but it seems like those who aren’t are in the minority. A very small minority. Where are they?